Bible Study from Calvary Chapel Newberg

with Tom Fuller

What Should You Change?

1Corinthians 7:16-40

Last time we talked about how some in Corinth, especially women who were just experiencing new freedoms in the body of Christ, thought it best to divorce their pagan husbands, or remain celibate in marriage in order to be better Christians. In the context of an overly-sexualized society, and of a coming persecution?it seemed to make sense to them.

But the Apostle tells them not to panic. If God calls you to be single, then be single?otherwise get married, work hard at the relationship, don\'t withhold yourself sexually from your spouse, and if you do get divorced, don\'t just rush off and marry someone else but get back with your partner unless there are good reasons for it?and there are sometimes.

In the last portion of the chapter he brings in more examples of how we might feel a radical change in our circumstances might help us be better servants of Christ. But in this section he again says \"Don\'t Panic.\" There is no need to make radical changes. The real need is to reflect Christ wherever you are and let the internal changes He is making shine out.

17 ? 24

Don\'t be worried about what you could be for God. Be concerned about what you already are!

I don\'t normally do this, but I love how the Message paraphrase puts verses 17-24:

1 Corinthians 7:17-24 And don\'t be wishing you were someplace else or with someone else. Where you are right now is God\'s place for you. Live and obey and love and believe right there. God, not your marital status, defines your life. Don\'t think I\'m being harder on you than on the others. I give this same counsel in all the churches.

18 Were you Jewish at the time God called you? Don\'t try to remove the evidence. Were you non-Jewish at the time of your call? Don\'t become a Jew. 19 Being Jewish isn\'t the point. The really important thing is obeying God\'s call, following his commands.

20 Stay where you were when God called your name. 21 Were you a slave? Slavery is no roadblock to obeying and believing. I don\'t mean you\'re stuck and can\'t leave. If you have a chance at freedom, go ahead and take it. 22 I\'m simply trying to point out that under your new Master you\'re going to experience a marvelous freedom you would never have dreamed of. On the other hand, if you were free when Christ called you, you\'ll experience a delightful \"enslavement to God\" you would never have dreamed of.

23 All of you, slave and free both, were once held hostage in a sinful society. Then a huge sum was paid out for your ransom. So please don\'t, out of old habit, slip back into being or doing what everyone else tells you. 24 Friends, stay where you were called to be. God is there. Hold the high ground with him at your side.

I know our tendency can be once we become a Christian to think that we need to quit our jobs and go to Africa or somewhere on the mission field and that\'s how we can be the best Christian. You might be called to drop everything and go to Africa, but make very sure that is what\'s happening and you are not simply responding to what you think would make you more holy and useful. Part of Paul\'s message is that your mission field is right before you, among your friends, family, co-workers, neighbors, and those you meet on the street doing your everyday stuff. It\'s the outward reflection of inward change that matters, not changing outward position or circumstances.

So next he moves to another issue they had written to them about: daughters or fianc?s.

25 ? 31

Should parents marry off their daughters? Nothing specific from Jesus, but Paul suggests that remaining single in \"this present crisis\" would be advantageous. However, Paul is not saying it is sinful to get married either. He just doesn\'t want them expending all of their energy finding a spouse, given the expected troubles of being a Christian in an increasingly hostile Roman Empire.

Paul doesn\'t want marriage, money, power, or position to be the ultimate goals in life. Given the coming persecution, he wants them to be as free from world-based concerns as possible.

The New Living Translation puts verse 29 this way: \"husbands should not let marriage be their major concern. Happiness or sadness or wealth should not keep anyone from doing God\'s work.\"

:31 Use the world, don\'t let the world use you.

32 ? 35

Paul is not casting a universal value here. In this chapter and in chapter 9 he extols the virtues of marriage. He is answering questions about specific situations and in that context he is saying that if you remain single you can devote your energies fully into the Lord. He\'s not \"putting a restraint\" on them, just giving them sound advice.

36 ? 38

Paul is saying that if a man has a fianc? who is nearing the end of marriageable age (18-20 in that culture) and feels that he wants to remain single, he should not be under obligation to his parents\' arrangements but should make the decision not to marry on his own.

39 ? 40

Some thought that Jewish widows could never remarry as they were committed to their husbands for all of their lives as well. Paul refutes that and again speaks of the benefits of singleness ? but within the context of the persecution and of the gift of singleness in God\'s service. He ends by saying something like: \"you can trust me on this, because I\'ve got experience knowing what the Lord is like.\"


What is universal and what is local here? The persecution was definitely a local thing that led Paul to encourage a light touch on the world and even on marriage?given the disruption of lives that will come ? and he certainly knew what persecution was like firsthand.

What is universal here is the need to put ourselves in the situation where we can best serve God. I think Paul is saying in part that you really can\'t make a mistake just going with your heart (the new heart, not the fleshly heart). Just because other people are remaining single, doesn\'t mean that\'s the way to go. Just because some head out on the mission field doesn\'t mean you staying at home are less than them or less holy or useful to the Master.

I\'ll re-iterate verse 24: \"Brothers, each person should remain with God in whatever situation he was called.\" Don\'t focus on the outward change in circumstance, but the inward change in character!

It\'s pretty easy to change the outward circumstances as if that in itself is the answer. For some it is their physical location, job, or relationship. For others it might be clothing, or something they do or no longer do. But the inward change of character is actually much harder, especially if you are in a tough circumstance, like a marriage to someone who doesn\'t believe or working for a mean boss. But the potential for witness is much much greater!

So, don\'t sweat the circumstances, focus on the transformation and reflection of that transformed character.

This might sound radical, but there are really no wrong ways with God, apart from sin, of course.